What Were You Like at 17?

Dear Darling Ones, I woke up this morning with Simon & Garfunkel’s “Homeward Bound” stuck in my head. Every stop neatly planned for a poet and a one man band. Over and over in my head while I strapped on my lymphedema garments (which I hate with the fiery passion of 8000 suns), when I doled out morning pets to los gatitos, and as I made breakfast. This is surprising because I’ve spent the last week or so listening to…

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One about Los Gatitos

Hi Darling Ones, Let’s lighten things up a bit here in Supergeniusland. Enough of the life and death of it all. Instead I’m gonna write about my cats. I was just sitting here resting after vacuuming this place and messaging with a friend about my cats. I was grinning because she’s funny and also because I realized that I am so fortunate to have so many crazy cat ladies in my life. My mom is A-#1 crazy cat lady and…

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Exhausted, but Continuing

Dear Darling Ones, My first thought this morning upon opening my eyes was of my dad. He died in September 2022. His death was not a surprise. He had warned us off and on for the year leading to his death that he was ready and tired of fighting. He had not been in good health since 2015? He was diabetic with congenital heart failure, he had surgery to remove lung cancer in 2016 and ended up having a stroke…

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Appreciation 4.24

Hey Darling Ones, I should have written this appreciation post before today. Today I’m a sourpuss who is sick of everything I usually love. I’m restless and bored and cranky. At physical therapy Wednesday, the formerly grumpy guy who checks in patients and is now nice to me asked, “Any COVID symptoms or new travel?” They ask me this every time I go in. Every. Single. Time. It’s not quite so ridiculous now that I only go in once a…

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America Why are Your Libraries Full of Tears?

Hi Darling Ones, I did my taxes last night. It was not pretty. To be fair, my taxes are never pretty. I’m a self-employed freelancer. This means I’m responsible for all of the taxes and social security and other things I probably should know. Every year my taxes are pretty hefty and while it hurts I always remind myself about the existence of public libraries and then I don’t feel so bad paying my taxes. I love the public library,…

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Fragile & Transparent

Hello Darling Ones, How are you? You know if you ever want to say how you are you can leave a comment or email me or message/@ me on various platforms. Just giving you that option. As for me, I’m still down in the dumps. I didn’t get any LEGOs for Easter, BFK still dislikes me, and my tremor continues to be a dramatic son of a bitch. Kind. Yesterday my physical therapist made me do sit-to-stands in the pool….

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Bobble Head Jodi

Hi Darling Ones, The first of the month is known by two things around these parts. I consider it Filter Day and Los Gatitos consider it Friend Liberation Day. It’s Filter Day because it’s the day I change all the filters, and by that I mean two of them. The furnace’s air filter and the coffee maker’s charcoal filter that does something, I think. On certain months there are four filters to change, the one for the water in the…

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I’ve Come a Long Way, Baby

Hi Darling Ones, Happy Easter Eve? Is that a thing? My knowledge of Christianity leaves much to be desired, and frankly Easter is confusing. Is Jesus still dead in a cave on Easter Eve? I don’t know. My Catholic Grandmas are so ashamed of me right now, from, heaven? They died years ago. I’m not so sure about heaven. And if I do, I hope the Gmas have better things to do than worry about my ignorance re: Jesus. What…

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Betrayed By My Subconscious & Other Complaints

Hey Darling Ones, How goes it? I’ve been quiet lately. I’m sorry. Some of you get a little worried when I go dark for more than a week. Would you believe in the way olden days people would get freaked out if I went dark for a day or two? This was before social media or what we know as social media. This was when we used to update our blogs like Twitter. It was fun. Speaking of the way…

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Appreciation 3.24

Hiya Darling Ones, It’s that time of the month where I quit bellyaching about my so-stroke-life and talk about the things I’ve been digging lately. Donors For real, everyone who threw some bucks at the GoFundMe are helping keep the lights on in this joint. I’m so thankful I don’t have the verbal capacity to put it into words. Things continue to be rough-going, and this helps immensely. Thank you! The 25th Annual Conference of Women Mentioned in Rock Lyrics…

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